Ive been dating a girl for 2.5 years and we both met while separated. Her ex is a cop and has the attitude to go with it. Him and I have butted heads a few times and she always defends his feelings over mine and recently Ive put my foot down.
She called me crying bc they were arguing over tax money stuff,,so I texted him and was extremely polite and asked if we could have coffee and talk and try to get along. He sends a message to me saying that his phone is "Polic issued" and for profeesional use only or I could get into trouble. Ofcourse he uses this phone to call her and everyone else. I told her that I felt she should take up for me and tell him that if the phone is for police busness only, then he cant call her on it.
She refuses which now I feel like Im always 2nd and it sucks. I love her very much and have broken up but she loves me but we always argue about that when other things come up. Bc she seems to take up for his feelings it has become hard during the relationship to care deeply about her,,,,but when I break it off,,I miss her sooo much.
What to do???
She called me crying bc they were arguing over tax money stuff,,so I texted him and was extremely polite and asked if we could have coffee and talk and try to get along. He sends a message to me saying that his phone is "Polic issued" and for profeesional use only or I could get into trouble. Ofcourse he uses this phone to call her and everyone else. I told her that I felt she should take up for me and tell him that if the phone is for police busness only, then he cant call her on it.
She refuses which now I feel like Im always 2nd and it sucks. I love her very much and have broken up but she loves me but we always argue about that when other things come up. Bc she seems to take up for his feelings it has become hard during the relationship to care deeply about her,,,,but when I break it off,,I miss her sooo much.
What to do???
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