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Hello guys, about a month ago I got into a new relationship and it has been going great! She makes me really happy, we've had a solid and as good start to a new relationship as you can possibly ask however....

She has this guy she speaks to occasionally who is a "Family Friend" I am totally fine with her having male friends, I trust her and have absolutely no problem with that at all.

She has been telling me how this guy has called her sexy and gorgeous and he has made it pretty clear he fancies her, he even asked her out on a date but she told him she has a boyfriend.

Earlier on she told me he made a move on her, this wasn't infact true and she said it just to "wind me up" she asked if it with bother me if he had.

I told her I would be annoyed with him for making a move on her but also I would feel as if she could have stopped that situation arising by being more assertive with him.

For example, since she has told him she has a boyfriend he has called her sexy, surely at that point she could have turned around and said my boyfriend wouldn't be happy with you being flirty with me but from the messages she has shown me, she hasn't and has resumed a normal conversation with him.

Was I wrong to say that? She has accused me of saying that she encourages other guys, which isn't true at all, I was just pointing out that she didn't do much to discourage him which is true isn't it?

I must admit to being fairly naive when it comes to relationships, I just wanted to know If I was being out of order saying that or whether I have every right too.




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