Please help, he has low T and won't deal

With it! It's been a year since his first test. Which I had to cojole him into. It was on the low side but he wouldn't do anything about it. He claimed his lowered desire was due to mild OCD and went on a treatment for that. It has helped his worrying a lot. But he is 38 and has no morning erections, doesn't think about sex during the day, he gets headaches a LOT, he has a lot of aches and pains, he turns me down for sex a lot. Usually we do it about twice a week. But if something gets in the way of that it seems like it just doesn't bother him at all. I usually initiate. I finally got him to make an appointment with an endo. Had to wait five months to get him in. Got his results back a month ago and his T was even lower. We went on vacation and then got back and I have been asking him over and over to make an appointment to talk to the dr. He keeps giving me BS answers. Like another dr looked at the file and said its not low enough to treat. Like he called and wants the dr to call him back and she never does. I tell him to make an appt and I'll go with him and he just keeps giving me excuses. I got another excuse last night. This morning I said either he makes the appt today or I will. I told him how pissed off I am. He says if the dr isn't worried about it, he isn't worried about it. Then he says he wants a second opinion! I told him my first marriage ended because he wouldn't take care of his hormones (thyroid disorder that made him psycho) and this is triggering me so bad. He starts going on about other things. I ask him who is going to make the appointment, me or him, and no answer. Right now I feel like just doing something major like drawing up divorce papers. I know I'm over reacting but this all feels too familiar. I even asked him last weekend if he is lying and manipulating and he looked at me in the eyes and said no. I don't know what to do.

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