Men! How do I hobby myself into happiness?

Men, I have been told in order to get my wife's respect and love (sex) I must not be needy or too available. Also, in oder to block her nagging of me out I should take on hobbies. This makes a whole lot of sense to me. I have a few talents I can get into and a few things I like. How do you men think I should go about with my life to block out the lack of sex and respect I get from my wife? How should I go about living my life to become the best I should be on my own? Thanks

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