| Hi all, My first time here. I have been in a relationship for a year now and not too sure if it will stand the test of time. We met online and chatted for about a year before we met face to face. When we did we have hardly been apart and moved in together after just 4 months. He is a chef and work very long hours. He is still married and been separated for 4 years. The times we spend apart was when his wife insisted he spends the night at her house and look after their 17 year old daughter that stayed out till 1/2 in the morning with her friends, His wife would send the night with her lover/s as she did not want to bring them to her house. This in it self caused so many arguments and after about 5 months I got him to stop this as I felt it was just so damned stupid . It the girl was younger the 13 fair enough but jeez 17.... They have not divorced as they have debt up to 120 thousand euro. Anyway this is the problem for me his daughter does not want anything to do with me at all. Met her once in a year and she came into my house was so rude that he has to ask her to say hello. She came in went onto his laptop and stayed on it till lunch and was on he phone at the table. She may have said 40 words the full 4 hours she was there. Since then not seen her once. She is so spoiled and get every thing she wants and I mean everything. Sorry I am going off track here. So the thing is he spends his one off day with her and I only see him about a hour a day and we have not got any life together. I work too 2 jobs.....He does nothing in and around the house I do everything washing, cleaning, cooking, and the list goes on the only thing I do not do is walk his daughters dog that lives with us and it is a lab and the hair is just crazy he does not even take care of the dog and I really do not like the dog. However the dog stays. He does his own ironing. Nothing more then that. I am very neat and tidy so it makes me really mad that I have to do everything including cleaning after him and his messy do. He feels I attack him when I point out things that I feel unhappy with. Like he give me very little time never considers my needs and wants. He say I should just except him as he is with all his flaws and what he brought into this relationship. He is not willing to change anything in his life to make us work. I am getting very frustrated with all of this and feel it is not worth being with somebody that will not add to a relationship. Is it just me???? Do I want to much??? | |||
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