Tired of arguing and the flareups are stressful!

STBX and I will argue once a week over how the divorce proceedings are progressing or who should be paying a bill or he wants me to say I will NOT go after his retirement earnings after 13 years of marriage. I just want to tell him to stop arguing about stuff and LET the attorneys hammer out our settlement once we get our paperwork to them listing assets and liabilities and inventory list. Once we see how much the retirement payments will be from each of our accounts then we can see if they are comparable and if we want to give up something else so each of us can leave the QDRO out of the final decree. I try to just hide out upstairs in my room most of the time but miss using the big TV in the family room and my computer but would rather hide out then have him flare up and pressure me on stuff. Any suggestions besides repeating over and over "talk to your attorney and leave me alone!":mad:

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