| Guys, I need your help. It's my understanding when a man is dog tired from working, he doesn't want to hear negativity (anything about bills) or complex questions right when he comes in the door. So, as a wife of a man who's been working like crazy to get our family up from under a ton of debt, plus has health issues, and some emotional issues from stress, it never seems to be a good time to bring up household or family issues that only he, as my husband and head of the house, can answer. If he's not tired, he's working. If he's not working, he's tired. He doesn't really sleep. Even when he does close his eyes and doses off, he keeps the TV on as a diversion for his mind. He's made some big financial mistakes and some marriage mistakes that has put our family in a tailspin, and he recognizes that. He always saying that he's so tired. Sometimes I feel like he's not going to make it and it scares me. I don't want to treat him like I'm his mot her and I don't want to bring up the mistakes. (I've done all of that enough already and I realize that a person can only take so much) But the fact remains, I still need to ask him about stuff. I don't want to add burden. How should I best communicate to him? |
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