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Clubbing, feeling left out and going without my boyfriend?

I go to a girls school and a lot of my friends are catholic and have had no experience of guys, so ever since they turned 18 we've been clubbing once or twice a week. Some of them have guy friends, but didn't start drinking until this year and see clubbing as a way to get with as many guys as possible even though it's supposed to always be a girls night. Apparently it's for "experience" before uni. The problem is it always starts out as a girls night, but as soon as we start dancing they go off with random guys individually and spend the majority of the night with different men. I am the only girl in the group with a boyfriend, and feel uncomfortable dancing with other guys and don't want to stand by myself at the bar, so I always feel left out. This is why I bring my boyfriend along, but I don't know what to do.

He doesn't like clubbing much and it's difficult to convince him to go, and its equally hard to get his male friends to come (so I can't pair the singles up. Moreover he's quite an awkward dancer and its not that fun with him. But I don't want to dance with other people. I also worry I ruin the night for the girls by going off with my boyfriend, but I don't have much choice. I would just like to go with my girls and hang them without guys, but that won't happen ever. Any ideas on what I should do?




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