| If you read my posts you know my story. If you didn't you didn't miss much :) wife which likes to blame, be angry, etc. etc. and perhaps even have borderline personality disorder. Today she told me "I am glad the counseling you are going to is working, but you should still try to do certain tasks better". That was in reference to one dish which wasn't washed properly by me. So what happened? First, I didn't go to any counseling lately. I went once couple of weeks ago but that was it. But really I had some sort of light switch in my head. I simply, finally stopped taking to heart her comments and criticism. "You didn't was the dishes well!" she will say, I will look at her and say "yes, you are right" or "I see what you are saying". I feel so much better when I do that. I am no longer scared what she thinks of me, or why she does, or feels. Whatever she does it's her own issue. It makes zero difference for me. | |||
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