Women as a gender, are lazy.

Why is it that for the most part, the majority of women sit back and expect the men to come to them? In this age of equality and feminism why is this hurdle still not acknowleged or discussed? It's almost a shameful trait that society on the whole is embarassed to discuss and has to feel offended by any mention of it. I know women are choosy and there's nothing wrong with this, but on the whole why is there a culture of the women letting the men come to them then doing their own shortlisting from that? I'm not just talking about "the first move" here, it goes as far as their own deep rooted expectations that the man will show an interest, then they will decide if that feeling is mutual enough to initiate a response. It's almost like applying for a job, where the female gender is the interviewer and holds the outright power to shortlist as they see fit but would never apply for one themselves, and the man is the one who has to send out 30-40 "applications" to even be considered. It's all about "playing the game". It's just a giant numbers game, where women know they can sit back and allow tens of men to come to them then choose from that but the men know they have to make themselves known and try their luck. For the record, I am not a hopeless romantic, i have had relationships in the past which have been successful. I'm just interested to see peoples thoughts on this phenomenon.

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