girlfriend still masterbates quite frequently but does not want sex.

Okay me and my girlfriend have been together just over a year now, and needless to say our sex life is almost non existant. When we first started dating we had sex maybe 3 or 4 times within the first month or so...than it stopped... for near 4 months. We had sex once on Halloween night, than not again till February.. I love her I really do but its going on 5 months since we have even been intimate at all...and its killing me. Buti know for a fact she masterbates, she tells me she does, and I can smell it on her hands some days when I get off work and go visit her... I don't only want sex from her but we have had sex less times than months we have been together. I was a virgin when we first met and she was my first so I know I'm not good at sex, but I can't even get better at it if I don't have it. I have read on some of these forums that having sex once or twice a month is a extremely low so how the hell should I feel. I have brought it up to her and she gets mad and says that's all I care about. and that she just doesn't want sex, she doesn't care if she has it. When I hear her way that it hurts me, makes me feel horrible like she doesn't care about my needs or wants. Any suggestions? What should I do?

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629984