Father trying to do what's best for kids

Hi all and thanks for reading. I'm looking for advice/support. I posted on here a while ago, but here's the update and facts. 10 year marriage 3 children current ages 6 to 8 Wife was cheating since Spring 2012. This was not the first time... She did IC and some joint sessions. Never told counselor she was cheating. Caught her in November. She moved out in December over 25 miles away from my house and 30 miles from the school. 50 minute drive with traffic. Bought a house recently with boyfriend (the OM) there. Just signed divorce papers. Custody trial scheduled in October. She insists the kids move with her (out of area and school district) while I insist on stability for them (in the marital home with me, in their current school, etc.) Since leaving, she exercised two evening visits per week and one overnight per weekend. I have had primary custody and been doing my best to help the kids deal with this while dealing with all the turmoil myself. I have a temporary custody order since April that reads 50/50 during summer, during school she gets two evening visits and one weekend overnight. I am very worried the judge will move my kids and need some advice. Neither of us drinks, drugs, abuse or anything like that. During the marriage, she worked part-time. Now she is full time like me. Her work is halfway between my house and her new one. Her parents live near where she moved to, and that's where the OM is from also. Your thoughts?? Thanks!

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979