It's official.

We have been together for 24years, married for 16. As of yesterday we have separated. Despite my best efforts to the contrary she no longer wishes to continue. We did go to MC and engaged in countless talks etc but to no avail. When I joined this forum I came looking for answers. Why what was happening in my marriage was happening. How was I responsible, what could I do etc. Standing up for myself and my needs was the best advice I received. Am I glad it's over? Yes and no. Yes because now I can begin to live again and create the kind of relationship I desire. No because I am going to miss my kids like crazy. That is the hardest part of all. I'm very sure there will be no reconciliation. There was no infidelity and addictions of any kind that caused this. Just a slow downward spiral in to negativity and chaos. Onward and upward.

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