| My husband and I separated 2 months ago (together 13 years and married 7) and I'm still trapped in my own mental thoughts. My husband went out and got an apartment after we had a fight in March. It did get physical by me taking my hand and pushing him in his face to move him out of mine. I didn't find out about the apartment until I received a return check where he had applied for a different apartment but got denied and had listed our previous address on the application so it was forwarded to my PO Box (GOD does try and wonders). But when confronted he acted like he didn't know what it was for and my mom didn't raise a fool. So I continued to watch him. The first of April I came how and noticed some of his electronics and summer clothes gone. I confronted him again while he was with a friend and he denied it. I waited till the next morning and asked him to be truthful and he told me I don't have a place even though I let him know I called the pow er company and verified he had service somewhere. Then he tells me he isn't happy and im not happy and we don't show each other love. He keeps going with we need counseling and need to be a better example for our daughter (my daughter from a previous who is deceased) but he's been in her life for 13 years. I agree to counseling and set it up but a couple of days before I went to try and talk without arguing and said I wouldn't go with him. My car was in his name and I knew if he left he would take it and he starting taking my car with no thought of me (even tho I pay the car note and ins)so prior to getting screwed I went and bought a Benz which made him mad because he wanted e to help him with a Corvette. He did take my car as his has been in the shop. Close to the end of the month he started spending the night away (2 nights on a Sun and Thurs) and hadn't sleep in the bed for 2 weeks with us arguing. I confronted him again on that Thurs and told him I wouldn't deal with ch eating again( 2 yr relationship with 1 chick and a couple of others about 2 years ago). I told him that he had basically moved his stuff and was mentally gone anyway so just leave. After arguing into the next day he got a Van and cleared out. Came back the next day and my lovely mother-in-law got him to call the police although I had filed a report of him having my gun he wouldn't give back so they actually ?'d him instead of me where he began to get upset and cry. I changed my # after he left so I would have no contact but it is hurting me that he didn't contact our daughter as he says for her Bday because she didn't want to be in the middle of our mess considering this off and on has been going for yrs. Pls help! | 
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