| Hello all, I started dating this girl 2 months ago, because of vacations, schedules and moves we have seen each other 4 times. We have talked a bunch on the phone and texted. It felt like the beginning of something special. I am choosy but we really clicked. What you need to know about her: Moved from LA to NYC 1 year ago. She has repeatedly said how much she likes me and how much that scares her and she does not want to get hurt. I assured we all have had our hearts broken, including me. She says I make her calm and comfortable. She for a few times was very open sexually with me over text. She said she has never done that before and it's because I make her so comfortable. I believe she is slightly anxious as well. I also moved June 1st, coincidentally across the street from her. It is NYC so I could run into her or never run into her. Last time I saw her was May 25th. It was an amazing date and we spent 6-7 hours together. She likes romance and chivalry and I have gotten her flowers and we have had some fun dinners. I am in the wine-food biz. Next day and day after much "I miss you, I want to see you again soon" type texts. She also sent a text after that last date saying she loves how good I am to her and thanked me. Then shortly after that she just started being hot and cold, then eventually it went cold. I havent felt this strongly about a girl since my ex-fiancee. She also said she feels strongly for me. No sex yet but incredibly passionate hooking up. We have not been alone together yet. On Saturday, June 2nd, after I had fully moved in, after 3 phone calls the week before (post may 25th date) which she did not return, including one which i casually mentioned if things are ok and if there is something wrong she can let me know. I am a very supportive man. She said some stuff at work was stressing her out. I responded back "I know me moving down here might make you a bit anxious and I will give you space." She responded back "Thanks that means a lot and also how was the move , etc." That Saturday I got a bit perturbed in my own head as I was across the street from this girl I was dating and I'd love to see her. Sent her a text saying "Not sure what is going on here, but I think I get the hint." Deleted her number and that was that. Later that night she texts back "I really like you and appreciate you but I can't even talk to you anymore. It's sad. We'll see what happens." On Sunday she sent me a pic of herself looking beautiful and with a joke about something that happened to her. I said she looked amazing in the pic and made a joke. She laughed via text. Since then lots of small banal texting. Like a total reverse like I had to win her affection again. I did on Wednesday of this week say "I really appreciate our sporadic texting and just wanted to say you are worth it. Have a nice day." Then she writes , "You too!" Then I send her a pic of myself after that and she said you look really really good. Then nothing and I finally texted her "I feel like I cannot even talk to you anymore. Sad." she instantly gets back to me and says "Why? Talk to me!" Finally last night I was on another date, as all my friends are saying I should date more while I am in this limbo. No chemistry with this girl. I had to go to an ATM to get cash and texted the girl I have been dating , "can we please talk on the phone, I am bad at texting." Went back to bar where date I had no chemistry with was and she called! I hit ignore as I could not pickup. Said goodbye to my date and called her 2 minutes after she called. Called again and left a message. She says she loves my messages. Texted her this morning I am sorry I missed your call along with a pic. She has said my pics really do it for her. Now I am in limbo. Have another date tonight but cannot get her off my mind as it felt so right and I know she likes me. What do I do? How can I relax, as I really like her. First girl I have since 2009. Thanks in advance! | |||
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