Rant - Pregnant and screwed.

Well...I'm officially screwed. Just as I was really starting to doubt whether or not my relationship would work, I find out I'm pregnant. As much as I try to accept everything, he just has too much baggage. His family is comprised of nothing but lazy, morbidly obese moochers with the collective IQ of an avocado. His sister literally told him that he's dead to her and his mother decided to insult him personally and as a father after he informed them that he could no longer pay their rent. What did they expect would happen? He has his own home, family and bills. I wasn't close to his youngest daughter before but ever since becoming pregnant my level of resentment towards her has multiplied. I don't want her around me; I definitely don't want her around my baby. She is violent towards small animals, demands all attention, has tantrums when she doesn't get the attention she wants, now has a communicable disease, licks people, still isn't potty trained and her favorite word is MINE. Not everything is yours you little cretin!!! Have you ever watched a kid dig in their nose, wipe the boogar on the stair railing and then lick the boogar off the railing? I have and it's as disgusting as you imagine it is. There is zero discipline when it comes to his children and then he wonders why is do my best Houdini impression when she is around. What am I going to do? On top of that I have to deal with 2 BM's and I don't know which one is worse. The one that managed to have 5 kids by multiple men all before her 27th birthday and is the epitome of a welfare queen. She is still collecting child support for their daughter even though the daughter has lived with us for a year. She refuses to sign papers and my DH doesn't have the balls to actually take her to court. How sweet...you don't want to upset your daughter by taking her mom to court but it's okay for us to pay child support for a kid that's living with us? Then you wonder why I look at you like you're an idiot? Then the other BM doesn't even want the kid that they chose to adopt together. His daughter has special needs and none of those needs are properly tended to which is why she behaves like a rabid mongoose. The girl is 5, they need to stop treating her like a baby, put some expectations on her, give her some rules, discipline her and maybe everyone will stop avoiding us like the black plague when she's around. All her BM cares about is how much money they get from the state for their daughter so she can spend another $3000 on a dresser or buy another new car. Is it sad that some days I stay at work way beyond closing just to avoid going home?

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