What to do with HER

First post here, looking for your help and input please. I moved to a new city just about a month ago. I went to a boring work related event one evening. I was approached by this girl asking me if I'm the one whom she was reading about in the event's website. She was beautiful, sexy, amazing body, and surprisingly eager to meet me! In a way, I was surprised to be approached by this woman like that. I thought why not, let me give it a try, so I asked her if she wants to carry on our conversation over drinks after the event. She said sure. We went to a nice restaurant bar after getting lost a bit in our separate cars. We talked for like four hours and clearly to both of us there was mutual attraction. The next day I asked her out on a proper date, and here she was dressed up and all for that date. We slept together on our first date and it was great. She surprised me though by only wanting to meet about four days after the first date. I simply thought she's just a busy girl. She purposely avoided any phone contacts and asked me to limit the communication to text. We met four days later and spent the night together and got even more intimate. She apologized to me the next morning if she was clingy as she was holding me all night. Then we had third and fourth dates and so on and the intimacy got even stronger and stronger. Three weeks later she suddenly told me that she doesn't want to be hurt by me and doesn't want to get attached. Why? because all her friends, her mom, her psychiatrist are telling her to stay away from me. I had told her that I'm separated and she feels that means that I can go back to my wife any moment and that's not security for her. Let me tell you about this girl, she's 37 years old, never been married or engaged, very outgoing and dated a lot. She's quite attractive and sexy and comes across as flirtatious. She goes to bars and drinks socially with her friends many times a week, so she's not the shy girl. When she told me this and that we need to talk and that I failed for a month to talk to her about any details of my situation, I said let's talk. I told her that I'm separated and have no plans to get back to my wife. She had told me at some point she's in love with me and I also told her I'm in love with her. We both exchanged words saying we care much for each other. But during that conversation she was very cold. She text me a day later saying "she's now sad and more confused, what would you do if were me?", I asked her to meet again and talk. She said that she's catching a cold and is physically so weak that she can't handle emotional talk now, then she text me again saying that "next time we meet let's not analyze and let's just chill". We agreed to meet a couple of days later. She came to my place, she had a bad cold, and she spent from 8pm to 3am on my living room carpet laying down. We watched three movies together, so we didn't talk much. She didn't want to talk. I asked her to sit closer to me and she refused. She left at 3am giving me a hug and didn't talk. What do I do? I'm so into this girl and don't want to lose her but in a matter of a week she changed from being so into me, a bit clingy so intimate, to this?

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