Stay with bf or leave.

Reasons to leave: -He's a complete ****ing liar. I find out so much stuff through friends etc because he won't discuss anything actually with me. Found out today that he's going to some chavvy stag do and he wasn't even gonna bother to tell me. I don't care what he does, just might be nice as his gf of 3 years to actually be told. -Sex life is absolute ****. -Don't have any fun anymore. He's really ****ing boring zzzzz. -Being with him is going to restrict what I want to do, he'll never move out of the ****hole town he was born in, he won't even commit to going on ****ing holiday. I've left the ****hole, live in my uni city, he'll never move here. -7 years older, so feel like I'm missing out on being young, having fun, going travelling etc -He's really rude if I say something a bit stupid for a joke. I can be a bit ditzy sometimes, he's really really horrid about it. :( -Feel like I've changed to suit him, but nothing ever changes to suit me :( -Absolutely no ambition. He's going to stay in the same dead end job forever. Fine if that makes you happy but if we ever had kids I'd want to be a SAHM for the first couples years, could never afford that on his salary. (I'm 23 so this wouldn't be for a few years, but yeah) -He bitches about me, to other people, completely changing what actually happened, so that he looks like he's right all the time. -His friends are a complete load of pathetic chavvy scum tbh. Not one of them does anything with their life bar get really drunk and act like a lad. Cool when you're 18 and at uni I guess, not so much when you're nearly 30. :rolleyes: -His parents are rude, judgemental little ****s, who seem to think i'm 'not good enough' for their precious son, despite the fact I'm at a top 10, and generally a nice person with a lovely group of mates. Oh I just needed a rant. Sad thing is I've been with him so long I'm really really scared of what my lifes gonna be like without him. I realise this thread makes me look like a complete bitchy cow, but I've had 3 years of this **** and I just can't cope anymore.

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