| Assuming a couple split more or less amicably, what are your thoughts on sex during separation, or even after divorce? There are obviously a few pitfalls to avoid, but I can see many logical benefits, also. I'd be interested to hear any opinions or stories of failure or success when it comes to ex sex. In my case, I'm fairly certain that my wife would let it happen under the right circumstances (which appear to be presenting themselves this weekend). She left about two months ago after 10 years due to ongoing relationship issues, with no cheating or abuse on either side. She says she's done with our marriage, but we've remained oddly close throughout the whole thing; I like to think that there is a chance of reconciliation under the right circumstances, and sex seems like a natural progression of us rediscovering one another. On the other hand, she's a bit of a cold fish in some ways, and could most definitely enjoy a sexual relationship with me with no feelings attached, putting me at risk of even more emotional turmoil than I'm dealing with now if I read more into our interaction than any of it really means. Logically speaking, we always had a great sex life, and it will be a long while before I achieve that with anyone else, so it has purely physical benefits for me as well. I also like the idea of leaving her with a fresh memory of my mastery in the bedroom, one way or the other :D Now, I know that I'll get a few "break out the lumber" comments, but keep in mind my unique circumstances on this one - remained close, good sex before separation, kids, and me aiming for eventual reconciliation despite her firm "no ways." I can handle the emotional price for the benefit, but I'd be curious to hear how the same type of situation has worked out for anyone else. | |||
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