Help - Again - And Again

My wife told me, that she enjoyed sensual talk, as much, if not more than our love making. Back story... Been having problems with s-x frequency in our marriage. She finally, after years tells me that she's not really into s-x. I mean, it was good to hear, because up till then, i just blamed her disinterest in me physically. I'm 39, she's 36, 3 kids, she's a SAHM. Right now, we make love about once a week. She's fine with this, and it would probably go longer, if i didn't initiate. When you add in her monthly friend, we go about 3x a month. I would like to do more, probably could do more if i pushed for so. But know, that at times i pushed for more, i could boring, uninspiring chore-sex. I started a thread here once, hoping, that she'd hit her peak soon, as the late 30's / early 40's comes around. Back to the reason i'm here. I now know how important Love Language is... but how do i go about this, without it sounding so rehearsed? Am I going to have to say what i say, pressing record first, and just hitting play, every time i need to make love to my wife. :) Any advice, will be beneficial, probably won't be able to respond till tomorrow.

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