| I'm in a 14 told marriage where the last year has been sexless. Last year or two before was rather sparse. We started out on fire me HD and her xhd at times. She has gone to no drive. She is getting help for her depression, and I am finally getting ready to start counciling for mine. I've been trying to talk to her more and be more active than passive. I've got too much time invested to just give up. Exact details irrelevant to my question. What experiences has anyone had with recovering? I know each situation is unique. Just need to get a handle on the shape of things to come. I'm committed. I know things will never be like the past. I do miss pleasuring her. Which I don't believe she appreciates. She used to do the bump on a log thing which I found worse than no sex at all. I gave up initiating along time ago. You can only be shot down so many times. But I have to hope that one day things may approach normal. I could easily deal with lower frequency for quality. This forum has been helpful over the past few days. Thanx. | |||
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