My husband always threatens me with divorce.

Hi, I am having big issues with my husband. We have been together for 5 years and married for almost 3. He was lovely in the first year together, but he started to change after that. He would call me names and break up with me every few months over petty arguments. I thought things would change when we got married, but he has gotten worse. Whenever we have a small argument, he tells me that he doesn't love me, his ex girlfriends were better than me, and he wants a divorce. There have been a few times where he has packed up his things and moved back in with his parents. He will try to shift the blame on me, and says that I don't love him or care about him, even though I do a lot for him. When he calms down, I try to talk to him, and his reason for saying he wants a divorce is because he is sick of the fighting. I believe that we have arguments like every couple, but he seems to see every argument catastrophic. He just keeps breaking up with me over stupid things. We separated a few months ago, because I grew tired of the threats and he was breaking my heart. He begged me to reconcile a couple of months later, and seemed to genuinely apology. He said with the time separated he realised what he was doing wrong and he doesn't want to go back there. He even bought me a diamond eternity ring to show me he was committed. I told him I would give me 1 last chance and that we needed to work on the trust. He was been helping around the house, and does not call me anything hurtful. But, it's been a month now, and we had a small disagreement, and he has suggested divorce. What do I do? I love him a lot, but he is breaking my heart every time he mentions divorce. How do I deal with something like that? He has a good heart, but it seems like I'm the only one who sees his other side. On a side note, I feel like there is something wrong with him as well. I don't think this is normal behaviour. He is very insecure and paranoid that I cheat on him even though I've never done anything like that, and there is nothing to suggest it. We have done marriage counselling, and he broke up with me during the sessions. What's going on with him?!

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