| I dated this guy for a few months. There were problems. Problems with his not disclosing things I felt were my business (he felt otherwise) such as ex-gf's calling and seeing other people, things like that. Anyway, he's been dishonest with me... and I have a real hard time trusting anything he says. We are totally broken up now. Friend status... but I'm finding that even being his friend is hard for me. I'm really trying too!! So I almost never see him. He almost never calls (it's ok, were just friends - but feels like barely that!), but the thing that drives me crazy is he will say he wants to hang out, we will make plans and he will cancel at the last minute almost every time! I just want to STRANGLE him. It's always "oh I have to do this for work" or whatever, but seriously I'm starting to not even care anymore. If that's true.... IF it's true that he's SOOO busy with work then his life must suck and that's just sad. However, I kind of doubt it's just work (looking at his track record)... and if it's some girl or something I just wish he'd would be honest about it. I wish he wouldn't make plans with me in the first place just to cancel and then say things that make me feel like I'm unreasonable and overreacting. Well, I guess in his view I AM unreasonable and overreacting, but in MY view, I'm just really upset because I want to hang out and I don't handle disappointment well (especially when it happens a lot). I don't know, maybe I just needed to vent. But you know I can't be the only one who gets frustrated when the person they want to see most is always too busy and cancels all the time. I feel bad for getting upset but I just can't help it. | |||
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