Have i ruined my wife's career.

A couple of years ago, I moved Europe on a work assignment from a south asian country. At the time I was due to be married in a few months, i returned hope and married my girl. At the time of the marriage, she was still working, and had quit it to be with me. I then returned again to resume work, getting her here was a long process (4 months), it was painful for both of us but visa work took so long. She reached here last year, and we enjoyed traveling and spending time with each other. She could not find work here due to permit limitations on dependents, as a result has been out of work for 18 months now. At this point my employer is asking us to move to Germany. There is hope in germany where she could find work, but of course no guarantees. the other option is to move back to the home country, for that i'd have to quit my job and find another...something which i have been trying to do for a few months with little success. I can see the pain now, she feels worthless, and the fact that is she is better qualified and educated than I am, probably hurts her more. I feel miserable, and guilty about it...have i ruined her career?

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