| I am 21 and my husband is 25 we got married in June of 2012 but were separated with a full stay away order of protection by the criminal court after he fractured my nose and tries to choke me back in July 2012, at the time I was 5 months pregnant with his first child, my third. Him and I were obviously having sex before our marriage, but shortly after our marriage things started to change. He would steal from me, my family members, and my kids with no remorse. He started being very disrespectful to me. I started to dislike him rather than love him. He also never provided anything for my children or me. I started to lose my attraction to him mentally and physically. When we were first separated I was very upset. I thought I would never be happy. I was 5 months pregnant with a 2 year old and a 8 month old. It took me a while to accept what happened. At first I was hoping we could work things out get marriage therapy, but from what people are tellin g me he does not want therapy. He showed no interest in us getting back together. He talked bad about me. I had my baby on Christmas and when he, along with his mom and other family members saw her picture they started to deny her. I honestly have never cheated. A week before I had the baby I started to think more about what was going on. I realize that I do not need him in my life he is like another child and he is abusive. I would like to file for an annulment. With that said, I have not had sex for a while now,I'm not sure what he's doing, I keep trying to fight of the urges but I'm not sure how much longer I can do that. My ex, who I was dating two years ago, just got out of jail too, I basically moved on from him while he was in jail he had 15 to life at first but was falsely accused. Him now being home is making it extremely hard for me to control myself. I am trying to stay away from him but it's not going to work for long. Due to the separation and order of protectio n, if something does happen between my ex and I, which most likely it will, would it be considered adultery? :confused:. I literally have no plans of getting back with him. I lost all feelings for him. I live in New York state if that helps anything. |
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