disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

I'm about ready (going to confer with my IC on Friday) to send a disclosure letter and wanted some feedback. Good, bad, or otherwise; give it to me. As most of you know, ***WIFEY*** and I are in the middle of a separation. She moved out on the 14th after having found an apartment 45 days ago. I want to bring to light an affair that she's having with ***OM***. The involvement started during or directly after the Landmark event paid for by [the company they both work for], and evolved into feelings that she acknowledged caused her to stop wearing her wedding rings. I'll offer that i was not the most well behaved person during this time (lack of interest in her talking about work, passive aggressiveness, and not putting up with her mood swings in a way that wasn't friendly or mature), but i did not choose to leave the household or break up our family as she did. ***OM*** was consistently involved with ***WIFEY*** moving in furniture into the new apartment and i've attached evidence to show that on more than one occasion she skipped a Landmark meeting to have dinner with him in [his home town]. I was told that ***WIFEY*** had 'broken it off' with ***OM*** about three weeks ago and that ***WIFEY*** told him she wanted to get better within our marriage, but she till continued to have what i believe to be inappropriate conversations. Things came to a peak during the recent career fair wherein ***OM*** and ***WIFEY*** drove together to the event and stayed out late for dinner with [important customer] and the [PM for important customer]. ***WIFEY*** acknowledged during marriage counseling that week that she did not return my texts when asked when she'd be home because she felt like, "i was her parent." She said to me and the therapist that no further texting was happening with ***OM*** "outside of business hours," but phone records attached show this was also not true. Unfortunately further efforts to reconcile our marriage are no longer possible because of (and, honestly ***OM***, my deepest apologies... i put myself in your shoes a lot frequently given our children are so close in age) of the recent death of ***OM***'s childrens' mother. ***WIFEY*** has spent (see attached toll records) various evenings/overnights at ***OM***'s house since the death, and has recently started to introduce him to our children. ***OM*** helped to build my children's bunk beds in ***WIFEY***'s apartment, and he recently spent time with my family (while i was of course not involved) at Chuckie Cheese. ***WIFEY*** would not answer my phone call or txts during this visit. Ironic, because over the last 60 days or so ***WIFEY*** has not been able to put her phone down while in similar settings with me. Also find attached a txt conversation right after ***OM*** returned from the yearly retreat from Puerto Rico that further outlines the inappropriateness of the relationship. (1am; 'i miss you' txt from my wife).

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