| Last night my partner and I had a huge argument about him going on vacation without me. I would love to get some thoughts from other people on this subject. Is it just me being selfish or is he inconsiderate. I am 8 months pregnant with our 2nd child. My partner just informed me that his dad is taking him on a cruise 4 months after our child is scheduled to arrive. When he told me I didn't say anything because I needed some time to sort through my feelings and last night I calmly wanted to share my thoughts and feelings with him on his trip. Although I feel he is entitled to do things without me I am feeling extremely hurt and excluded. When I told him how I felt he got angry, told me Im just jealous of his family and being unreasonable. He will also be leaving for about two weeks right after the baby is born to train for his work. So this will be the 2nd trip he is planning on going on after our baby is born. I am already dreading having to take care of 3 kids with no help. I know I am going to be exhausted for a while when she gets here. After 9 months of being pregnant I would also like to have a weeks vacation.... I am hurt that he is planning his vacation without me when I would love to be able to go. Am I being unreasonable to feel left out and hurt that I don't get some time off? Is it unreasonable for me to want to have a vacation with my partner instead of him going with his dad? He hasn't planned anything with me for more than two years. When I suggested a vacation for us he says he cant afford it, even though I pay my half of everything and always have. Please advise... Im upset and need some clarity... | |||
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