What the he** is going on????

Ok....Most of you know my story. But over the past few weeks i have learned of many other infidelities. NOT on the part of my wife, but i have learned of freinds and co-workes that are finding out that their wives are or have cheated on them. First off, a close friend and co-worker confided in me that he found out his wife and mother of 2 had been cheating with 2 different men for the past few years. They have been in MC and IC for a while now and R is moving forward well. Second, i find out that a co-worker, not so much a friend, found out his wife and mother of 3 has been cheating for a while now. Third. Another co-worker and close friend, his wife just left him and moved in to her mother's for "a while" to get her thoughts together. I just found out through a mutual friend that this guys wife and mother of 3 has been cheating (no confirmation of PA yet though) and he doesn't know it yet. I told the mutual friend to tell him today or i will before the end of the day. This is 4 lives (mine included) that have been truned upside down by a wayward wife. I am not posting this to get feedback or oppinions regarding the indivuals i mentioned. What the H*LL is going on???? All of these guys are upstanding men and great fathers and husbands (as far as i've seen). Obviously there is always a chance that things could be different behind closed doors. But knowing them, very unlikely. None of our wives no each other as we keep work and family seperate. I just don't understand. I walways thought the stereotype of the man that couldn't keep it in his pants and that men were cheaters by nature...blah blah blah. The more i read in articles and the more i am seeing in the world. Women cheat more and longer than men do. I am at a loss

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