a little talk with fiancé.

So this morning I sat my fiancé down and had a talk with her as to why for the past 4 years or so she stopped giving me gifts for birthdays, Xmas/valentines. We have been together 12 years and things have been rocky between us for a bit. It started about 4 or so years ago, her b'day gifts just seem to stop. Then 2 years ago xmas/valentines gifts stopped. I asked her this morning what it means. Her answer was that she didnt have the time, then she said she didnt have the money. We do not live a luxurious life by any means. But we dont have very many living expenses either. I told her that she had plenty of time to get me something. And as for money, I told her that a simple b'day card would be nice. I dont want something big or expensive, just the thought counts. I make it a point to give her expensive and thoughtful gifts. I've bought her smartphones for bdays the last two years. For Easter and valentines I make her baskets filled with her favorite chocolates and coffees. And yet, without fail, I receive nothing in return but the same excuses. I then told her today that her excuses are weak, and very old. She couldn't give me any answer. Nothing. Just looked at the floor and started doing nervous actions with her feet and hands. Couldn't even look me in the eyes. I'm just frustrated by her. To me, she doesn't give a damn about me. Its like a one way street. I give, and she takes. I told her, fine, then we are roommates. What I wanted to say to her, but didnt, is that once our lease is up, we will part ways. Was this the best way I should of handled it? What does it generally mean by her not giving me anything so much as a b'day card for my b'day? She seems sincere, but I dont know anymore. Posted via Mobile Device

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