Was I being unreasonable/next move?

Came to uni this year on a bit of a 'freedom mission' after a long relationship. Got to know this guy through a friend, and we really got on well and spoke a lot of the time. He had a bit of a rep as a player but I wasn't too bothered as I wasn't looking for a relationship. We started a FWB situation which I was pretty content with for a while. However, slowly but surely I started yearning for something a little more. So I told him that I didn't want to sleep with him anymore, and the reason for that, and although I really liked him as a person (obviously, otherwise I wouldn't have slept with him), I knew he wasn't looking for anything serious but just so he knows the reason why I no longer wanted the FWB. Then we started talking loads again over the xmas break. I was pretty lonely, I realised my feelings for him had developed further than I had bargained for. He said he wanted to meet up again (for sex) after we got back to uni. I agreed. When we did go back, communication got a little weird.. very on and off, and I never ended up going back to see him, and our contact was confusing and sparse. So one evening I text him.. we had a little small talk, and then I basically asked him "where things stood" with us. I told him I understood that our 'relationship' was a casual FWB situation and that he had no obligation to me, but I didn't like how my behaviour had been (casual sex etc) and that I wanted something more substantial, and that I didn't expect it to be him, but I wanted to know where he stood etc because obviously I had developed feelings. He never replied to my text. So all in all that was a bit of a douchey move, I genuinely just wanted to know where I stood, because it was doing my head in and I needed to straighten up and sort myself out and move on. So that was about 2 1/2 weeks ago, and there was still no contact. I got his message no problem, but I was really angry with him the way he went about it. Was it so hard to just say "ok, that's fair enough.. personally, I'm not really looking for anything more, so if you are then it's probably best we stop sleeping together".. !?! Anyway I was so angry that I sent him a message telling him that.... and he responded saying that he was confused and didn't know what was going on. Was I unreasonably to be angry? What's my next move? He's the kind've guy who likes to ignore problems etc and I can see by his reply he's getting all geared up to come up with some crap like he never got my last message. Do I just leave it and move on and try and let go of my anger, or confront him about it? Thanks

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