Why now??? Is there something wrong with me?

Hi there everyone~ It is almost a year since my husband was caught in an intimate relationship through texting and phone calls. Since he was caught, he has been nothing short of amazing; he wrote her a letter to end it (letting me have a word or two as well) and he hasn't contacted her since. Now for some reason I'm wanting to have contact with her after all this time... At first I wanted to tell her not to worry about feeling guilty for what she has done, because we have never been closer which is very true...with therapy and lots of love and patience. But now I'm not sure...could it be that after all this time, I want to rub her nose in it? :scratchhead: We are renewing our vows in March and I'm SO happy, so why do I care at all about her? If he can give her up, why can I? (Please note: I know for SURE that they have no contact...spyware everywhere installed for a year.) Just would love to know if anyone else has had this problem, even when things are so good between us???

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