Help Me Understand Better

Okay, so I have been doing alot of reading, married 20 years. I get it that men prioritize sexual needs, I get that their hormones are what controls most of their decisions from the age of 11-50. And at least from my experiences with men they will go to great lengths to cover their tracks and their real feelings towards other women. So I am wondering how do men seperate their desires for their wives from the desires of other women, porn, etc? Is it like a compartment in the brain that says this folder is for lusting and enjoying porn and this other folder is saved for my wife? Isn't hard to not let the lines of faithfulness and desire to be crossed when you arer fantasizing about the hot young chick sitting across the room? And how deep does this go in the pshychi of the brain? Is every sweet young thing just an object for lust? Is it really that hard to control. It seems to me, all too often, that men almost cannot focus on reality because their hormones are so in the way of making rational decisions. If they are not getting sex from their partner then there is something wrong, and it is not with them in their thought processes, there has to be something wrong with the partner. I guess just like women cannot understanding the raging hormones and the stressed importance of sex every day all day, men cannot understand our emotional connections and what makes us the way we are.

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