who comes first friends or partner?

Im finding it hard my friends are very important to me they do come very very high up on my priority, I see them atleast 4 times a week in the holidays and in term times they come up and stay etc etc. Im very close to home at uni due to medical problems and go home friday to sunday every week. However now that im at uni I only see my boyfriend every other week. I dont mind this as we only saw each other once a week in the holiday anyway however im not feeling a bit resentful of his friends which i know i shouldnt. I get to see him before football on a saturday so from 10am till 11.30 am or on the sunday for an hour but usually he is hung over. Saturday night he is usually out with his mates I totally understand you have to see your friends but Im finding it increasingly hard that he cant see me for more than an hour yet he goes to the same club every weekend and spend from 6pm till 1pm the next day with his friends. When i ask if maybe if he could come stay on saturday he tells me it depends what his friends are doing, if his friends arnt out then he will see me, but recently theyve been out every weekend for the past 3 months. He spends friday and saturday nights with them, he even goes out clubbing with his friends and their girlfriends yet wont ever invite me along. Even when he is with me hes just on his phone texting his friends constantly about their next night out. He never seems like hes enjoying himself and wants to go to sleep by 10pm and then lies in bed the next day till lu nch and leaves. I dont know if im being selfish but the biggest thing thats bugged me is i wanted to a week away not abroad as i cant afford it but it the new forest or something at a spa or a little cottage, however hes only got a week left of holiday and told me he cant take it to go away so we have to wait till april 2014 before we can go away, and now ive found out hes booked to go to magaluf with his friends for a week in july. Is it wrong to expect your partner to sometimes put you first?

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