When do you call it quits?

Very happily married, but something hubby said shocked me. He said if someone in a marriage "just isn't happy" they should leave. I personally think the only reasons someone should leave are if there is infidelity, or verbal or physical abuse. This is a second marriage for me. I was married for 24 years. Exhubby said he wasn't happy and we were in couseling. We were supposed to be making an effort and writing eachother little love notes when exhubby was posting how I wasn't the woman of his dreams on facebook publically humilitating me in front of family and friends many of whom didn't even know we were having problems. That's when I decided his heart wasn't into counseling and I couldn't save the marriage all by myself. So I called it quits. However, having been married for 24 years I am familiar with the dynamics of a long-term relationship and there were times I was miserable and times when I was happy. There were peaks and valleys. A lot of the time I was unhappy had more to do with me than it did my exhusband. I think over the course of the rest of our lives there are going to be times hubby and I aren't happy and times that we are. Would you leave if you just weren't happy?

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