why doesnt my wife ever 'get over' things?

Married 4 years, no infidelity, no big issues... It just seems like any mistake I have ever made has not been forgiven. Maybe I'm not properly addressing this, but there is this underlying anger and resentment that my wife has that just infuriates her anytime she thinks back to fights. Its getting to the point where we were out celebrating our anniversary tonight and she became furious about a batchelor party two years ago where one of my friends got a little inappropriate with a stripper. I didn't tell my wife what he did until one of my friends slipped a few weeks later and then I told her. We had a huge fight about it, and then it just comes up over and over again every once in awhile and turns into a huge fight. How many times does someone need to apologize for a mistake they made? There's plenty of other things too, just anything and everything that made her mad in the past always comes back to haunt me and turns out just as big of a fight as it did when it happened. Its not just once or twice...it just adds to the lust she keeps yof my mistakes that she feels the need to bring up and get furious about. Then out of the blue she's screaming and I'm sleeping on the couch. Should I just expect this? I know she doesn't want to get hurt again but when do you give up on getting someones trust back? Again, the story above is about as bad as these mistakes get... A few more -times I've drank too much -falling asleep when she is out late traveling and missing a 3am phone call -drugs from my past (way before her) -girls I've dated -spending too much time working

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