I will try and keep this short. Wife and I are going through a divorce waiting period on papers I filed. We had discussed for a while seeing what it would be like.
When she found out I filed she was shocked. She asked for 2 weeks to think things over. We have two kids but I watch them anyways. She sort of abandoned us, would stay out late all the time and avoid me and the kids for the most part.
I talked to her mom and she said my wife told her she needed some time to see if she could be a better mother (gone a lot) and wife. She also said wife was concerned I didn't love her and didn't ever buy gifts anymore. I went to a few counseling sessions as soon as she left and I learned a lot about myself and the mistakes I made that contributed to our poor marriage. I feel like I was blind for a few years and want to show her that
My question is, give space or pursue? I feel like its 50/50, she wants space but also wanted me to love her and be more romantic. Should I send her something or try to make contact to show her I'm willing to be more loving and romantic?
When she found out I filed she was shocked. She asked for 2 weeks to think things over. We have two kids but I watch them anyways. She sort of abandoned us, would stay out late all the time and avoid me and the kids for the most part.
I talked to her mom and she said my wife told her she needed some time to see if she could be a better mother (gone a lot) and wife. She also said wife was concerned I didn't love her and didn't ever buy gifts anymore. I went to a few counseling sessions as soon as she left and I learned a lot about myself and the mistakes I made that contributed to our poor marriage. I feel like I was blind for a few years and want to show her that
My question is, give space or pursue? I feel like its 50/50, she wants space but also wanted me to love her and be more romantic. Should I send her something or try to make contact to show her I'm willing to be more loving and romantic?
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