Hi Everyone, I'm new to the board here. Thanks for your support in advance.
So here I am having initiated NC since two weeks. I married her 5 months back. In these 5 months, I've failed to have sex with her (issues related to my previous porn addiction and her inability to get really intimate with me) Since we live in a foreign country (we're expatriates), I told her that I would seek professional help when we return on vacation to our home country. When I finally reached on vacation, I come to know that she
1. Has told her family that I suffer from ED. She betrayed my trust by having told them.
2. Called her parents home to come pick her up. They turned up and we had a huge fight (her parents and I) following which she just left with them. Her mom promised to drop her back in 3 days. The fight went over a lot of stuff, basically how her parents tried to control everything from the guests who turned up , to boycotting their daughters reception by not turning up. Basically the whole family are control freaks.
3. They never dropped her off and basically started NC on me, to call them back. I never did and eventually returned to my place of work by flight.
2 weeks have now passed and she hasn't bothered to call or talk. Her entire family & relatives unfriended me on Facebook and she took off her married status and blocked me too. A week after she did that, she unblocked me, after which I decided to simply deactivate my profile.
She's always been a control freak and I've always resisted her tactics. But now it went a step too far by not accompanying me to the counseling session and her parents taking advantage of the situation by blowing up the situation.
Where do I go from here? I need any advice. Thanks again.
So here I am having initiated NC since two weeks. I married her 5 months back. In these 5 months, I've failed to have sex with her (issues related to my previous porn addiction and her inability to get really intimate with me) Since we live in a foreign country (we're expatriates), I told her that I would seek professional help when we return on vacation to our home country. When I finally reached on vacation, I come to know that she
1. Has told her family that I suffer from ED. She betrayed my trust by having told them.
2. Called her parents home to come pick her up. They turned up and we had a huge fight (her parents and I) following which she just left with them. Her mom promised to drop her back in 3 days. The fight went over a lot of stuff, basically how her parents tried to control everything from the guests who turned up , to boycotting their daughters reception by not turning up. Basically the whole family are control freaks.
3. They never dropped her off and basically started NC on me, to call them back. I never did and eventually returned to my place of work by flight.
2 weeks have now passed and she hasn't bothered to call or talk. Her entire family & relatives unfriended me on Facebook and she took off her married status and blocked me too. A week after she did that, she unblocked me, after which I decided to simply deactivate my profile.
She's always been a control freak and I've always resisted her tactics. But now it went a step too far by not accompanying me to the counseling session and her parents taking advantage of the situation by blowing up the situation.
Where do I go from here? I need any advice. Thanks again.
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