I have had this problem for MONTHS, to the point where it is too ridiculous to admit. I am 18, in college and I am itching for a girlfriend because I haven't had a relationship for almost 7 long years.
I approached a girl 8 months ago, she didn't directly reject me but I could tell that she wasn't interested. Ever since then, I have chickened out! I don't understand it. I have gained myself a lot of confidence among friends, going out etc. and I have self-esteem. I had OCD and Anxiety the past few months too but I have recently overcome that.
I was itching to approach this girl I know that lives nearby and I know for a fact that I should not be afraid to approach. I was in the right mindset. I told myself that it is stupid to let an opportunity go past; it is stupid to care what people think; just be positive etc. And, on a daily basis - I don't care what people think, I be myself. But whenever there is a beautiful girl, and my intention is to approach her, I chicken out! I really cannot comprehend why I am doing this. Plus, I am not a bad-looking guy as I am noticeable and girls always give me "the glance". Even the girl I am trying to approach has glanced at me a lot!
Much advice and help would be great! I beating myself mentally here!
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