What do you love about being married?
I miss having my ssb as Carrie Bradshaw puts it...secret single behavior. I like to have marathons of reality tv that I've saved up to watch at the end of the week and eat junk. I also like to workout on the treadmill by myself and listen to music really really loud. This was when I had a treadmill and could do that of course. I basically like having my space and being together when we want to be. I think he feels the same way, except he does the same things whether I'm with him or not.
I also miss not having to be "on" all the time as far as sex goes. Stress really gets to me and I have the advantage of turning feelings on and off. He doesn't so I have to be on all the time just in case and it's exhausting. Sometimes it isn't fun anymore because I'm always in my head thinking what I'm doing wrong or that he wants to and he doesn't want to bother me. This is on top of other stressful things.
The thing I love most about being married is being with my best friend. We have all of these insane experiences together that no one else would believe happened. I wouldn't want to be on the journey with anyone else.
So, what do ya'll love and hate about being married?
I miss having my ssb as Carrie Bradshaw puts it...secret single behavior. I like to have marathons of reality tv that I've saved up to watch at the end of the week and eat junk. I also like to workout on the treadmill by myself and listen to music really really loud. This was when I had a treadmill and could do that of course. I basically like having my space and being together when we want to be. I think he feels the same way, except he does the same things whether I'm with him or not.
I also miss not having to be "on" all the time as far as sex goes. Stress really gets to me and I have the advantage of turning feelings on and off. He doesn't so I have to be on all the time just in case and it's exhausting. Sometimes it isn't fun anymore because I'm always in my head thinking what I'm doing wrong or that he wants to and he doesn't want to bother me. This is on top of other stressful things.
The thing I love most about being married is being with my best friend. We have all of these insane experiences together that no one else would believe happened. I wouldn't want to be on the journey with anyone else.
So, what do ya'll love and hate about being married?
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