Need some advice from blokes here, as you know I'm seperated/dating:
I've always been a suspicious one, but I've learnt to try to give people the benefit of the doubt, act clueless until they betray me, but when they do, I already have my eggs out of the basket.
Take for instance my recent date, she was checking me out for a few months everytime I walked into the laundry, while I thought she was just being a rude starer. Regardless, she turned out to be very confident, even with her strange game. She's only ever seen me in business attire prior to our date, and I no longer have my sh-tbox to drive around and instead continue driving my Maxima that I owned since marriage, which isn't exactly extravagant sure, but I would have prefered to drive my old sh-tbox for dating. If anything, guess I may have already come across as financially stable.
That's bad.
Not to mention despite the initial awkwardness of our first date, my recent date remained quite cozy... no real challenge to impress. Hell she even asked me out 2 days later which I rejected as my weekends are committed to my daughter.
As such, she may indeed have a hidden agenda; aka materialism which is quite common in this city. Now sure, I'm confident with myself, but I don't like to have too big a head, even if I joke around as if I do - I'm a realist; I know I'm no Johnny Depp.
But that also makes me paranoid. What I ask is this: Am I being paranoid? It just seems... too easy. If she wasn't attractive then I guess I would be less suss, but something just feels off. But it could be just me, thoughts?
I can easily friendzone her this week and come up with any number of understandable excuses; ex/daughter/etc etc, and it would save me and her the trouble. And at the very least I would have also got rid of the awkward staring whenever I popped in to do my laundry.
My last date outside of meetup.com was more of a challenge so I wasn't so suss. This one... meh, I never trust anyone who wants to be close to me so fast, but maybe I am just paranoid? Thoughts?
I've always been a suspicious one, but I've learnt to try to give people the benefit of the doubt, act clueless until they betray me, but when they do, I already have my eggs out of the basket.
Take for instance my recent date, she was checking me out for a few months everytime I walked into the laundry, while I thought she was just being a rude starer. Regardless, she turned out to be very confident, even with her strange game. She's only ever seen me in business attire prior to our date, and I no longer have my sh-tbox to drive around and instead continue driving my Maxima that I owned since marriage, which isn't exactly extravagant sure, but I would have prefered to drive my old sh-tbox for dating. If anything, guess I may have already come across as financially stable.
That's bad.
Not to mention despite the initial awkwardness of our first date, my recent date remained quite cozy... no real challenge to impress. Hell she even asked me out 2 days later which I rejected as my weekends are committed to my daughter.
As such, she may indeed have a hidden agenda; aka materialism which is quite common in this city. Now sure, I'm confident with myself, but I don't like to have too big a head, even if I joke around as if I do - I'm a realist; I know I'm no Johnny Depp.
But that also makes me paranoid. What I ask is this: Am I being paranoid? It just seems... too easy. If she wasn't attractive then I guess I would be less suss, but something just feels off. But it could be just me, thoughts?
I can easily friendzone her this week and come up with any number of understandable excuses; ex/daughter/etc etc, and it would save me and her the trouble. And at the very least I would have also got rid of the awkward staring whenever I popped in to do my laundry.
My last date outside of meetup.com was more of a challenge so I wasn't so suss. This one... meh, I never trust anyone who wants to be close to me so fast, but maybe I am just paranoid? Thoughts?
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