Desperate for some honest advice

Ok, hello everyone, there is so much i need to say i don't know where to start. I have been in a relationship for 13 years now with a beautiful woman, we have a 10 month old baby who i love to bits, were engaged with no immediate plans to get married. i feel she doesn't feel the same as me anymore, i make sure i compliment her almost every day, i am still as attracted to her as i was the day we met all those years ago, the big problem is the sex life, she is rarely "in the mood" for it, i try everything to get her "in the mood" from hot candle lit baths, to foot rubs, to telling her how beautiful i think she looks and how much i love her etc... When we do have sex i am expected to just go like a rabbit and for her its over in minutes and that's it, all i want to do is please her, she wont let me go down on her (which i am craving to do!) its just missionary for roughly 5 or so minutes then end of! how can i get her to be a bit more experimental? Im lucky if i get sex once a week, and i know its not much but till take that because when we do have sex i feel closer to her, i feel like a love sick teenager. Because of the lack of sex i use porn regularly to almost fill the void, and at least watch people having experimental sex (by experimental i mean more than one position) And before people start thinking, i would much rather have sex with my woman than watch porn anyway, no question and she would rather me watch porn than ask her for sex. anyway there's so much more to say but i don't want to bore you. I would be so grateful for some good advice on my situation, all i want is a healthy and satisfying sex life with the woman i love but i cant seem to get through to her, i've tried and tried to speak to her about it but she wont even entertain it. Thanks people, big love x

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