| I was married to my wife for the better part of about fifteen years when I discovered that she was cheating. Leading up to the confirmation I didn't see any changes in her behavior or schedule as she was just the same as she always was. Attentive, attractive, energetic, supportive, and kind. We were even talking about a future project that we wanted to do involving building a new deck and patio area. Anyway, I found that she went for a jog one morning and a phone started to vibrate near the desk where I was reading the paper. Curious, I searched and found the phone (which I have never seen before) and I flipped it open to reveal a text message. The message was a few words detailing what the picture file was. The picture was of a another man's penis, and so I grew sick and put the phone down. I would like to interject at this time that I was an Intelligence Officer in the US Armed Forces for several years. I moved through my emotions fairly quickly and then decided to download her texts and phone records to a thumb drive. In the coming weeks I played it cool, part of my training, and would make excuses when she wanted to have sex. I found out that she was having four separate affairs with men ranging in age from 22 to 45. I gathered sufficient evidence including phone records, photos, and text messages plus a few screenshots of social networking sites. Without her knowledge I went and gave the evidence to my lawyer who filed all the necessary paperwork for me. We signed a prenuptial agreement before we got married as I have several investments and businesses that I wanted to protect. Needless to say, she was shocked when she came home to find that all the locks were changed and that all of her things were neatly sitting outside of the home. My father taught me to always be kind to an enemy (which I now classified her as one) and so I gave her a kindly stipend of $2,500 to go start her new life with anyone of the four men she had chosen over me. I wanted to share because I've seen a lot of people get emotional (which is natural) but then they stay that way and make decisions rashly. Take it from me. The best thing to do is to keep calm, create a plan, and take action using outside sources of help if you're able (an accountant, a lawyer, private investigator, what have you). They will be able to help direct you without adding emotion into things. Feel free to comment. | |||
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Strategic Ending
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