How do I deal with getting over her when we're still "friends"

This was my previous story. Basically, I broke up with a girl that I really cared about because I figured I'd hurt her. I wanted her back, but she was dating someone else, though she nearly took me back (wanted me to demonstrate commitment/tell her I loved her. Instead I didn't, and freaked out). Felt rejected, and I went needy for a couple days. She said maybe we shouldn't talk for a while. I followed that, but she kept posting on my Facebook, saying nice things, etc - a way to keep in contact/show everything was "alright" I suppose. I haven't seen her in a month and a half. I eventually manned up and admitted to myself that I loved her and I haven't told her. I contacted her a little over two weeks ago on Facebook, and said I hoped she was alright, and I didn't want to lose contact entirely. I thought that I could handle that level of interaction. I was wrong. She said she had just been talking about me, and called me. We talked for an hour about nothing. Since then, I've just been reeling in my head about why she'd call me. I've realized since then that it probably meant nothing, and she was just checking up on me, but part of me wants it to have meant more. Why would she say she had just been talking with her friend about me? That makes no sense. It's brought feelings back to the surface I was trying to kill. I don't want to entirely cut her out, but I just can't seem to get over her - I've dated a lot of girls, and she's the first one that I ever had any "moments" with, where I just stared into her eyes full of emotion and didn't talk, and vice versa. It really felt special. Part of me just wants to call her, or text her and ask to see her again. Part of me thinks I should just tell her that I still care about her, I was stupid, and I know she's in a relationship right now, but I have to get things off my chest. Part of me just thinks I should block her entirely, with or without telling her, from any newsfeed of mine and pretend she doesn't exist. She posts semi-regularly on my wall, and likes about half of my posts, so I see her face semi-daily on there. The intensity has increased since I contacted her, though I suspect if I don't talk to her again, she'll stop doing as much. She's a sweet person, and the break-up was entirely my screw-up, but how are you supposed to get over someone in a situation like this? Why would she call with an excuse (her friend and her talking about me, but she made it SUCH a minor point of the conversation, only when I brought it up at the end, "So um, why were you talking about me?"). Ugh. I thought I was over her, but thinking about this has only brought my feelings back.

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