How did you keep your "spark" alive in your marriage?

Hello! I'm new here. I've heard lots of stories about infidelity in marriages, and I also know people who've experienced it before. The reason why I joined TAM is because everyone here has amazing advice and experiences to share. (I'm a college student btw so don't judge me for being too young and on this website lol.) Ever since hearing about others experiences with infidelity, I've been intrigued to learn about this topic. From what I've learned, infidelity seems to be more common in marriages nowadays and the causes of cheating is either one of the spouses is being neglectful, or they simply just became bored with their marriage life (or sex life). Many people still love their spouse, but they cheat because sex became boring and they like the thrill of an affair. I know there's lots of marriages with infidelity, but there's also lots of marriages where both spouses are loyal too each other and love each other dearly. So I'm asking you guys on TAM: How can a married couple keep the "spark" alive? Would you say that's it's very hard?

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