Seriously my entire history of experiences with women has been just tons of sex, few pockets of love in between and that's it. To the point that one past FWB (Friend with benefits) told me that I'm the type of guy that she likes to fk but never get involved in. In other words, I was nothing to her but a sausage (which at that time I was happy with). But what she said now haunts me as I return to the dating scene from marriage. Another even mentioned that I was "bf material" and not "husband material" based on her first impressions of me -.-
There's definitely something about me which is off, but I haven't found any answers. The only consistent response from women is that I apparently give off the vibe of a player which initially makes women back off. They never said anything was wrong with me, just who I am - the fk was that supposed to mean? o.O
So ok, I started showing a little vulnerability here and there, but in the end, still nothing but a sausage. I still remember that one singles event that I attended and EVERY WOMAN believed I was a player (I blame the gossipers - but I find it disturbing that they all agreed without even getting to know me!!!!)
My ex never judged me in this way, confident from the get go that she could handle me (and she was right - I just couldn't handle her!). Yet, in the end, I was nothing but a sausage (and wallet) - but she certainly loved the sausage enough to marry the man behind it at one point!
Anyway, I'm with an FWB now so I'm still nothing but a sausage. After enough disappointments in dating I've succumbed to my fate. Is it time to acknowledge that I'm just not relationship material? Sure emotional attachments can still occur, evidently from a recent FB (fkbuddy) who I had to leave behind as I couldn't give her what she wanted - and from my perspective her "love" was merely an illusion/cloud as it happens from time to time in casual relationships.
There's definitely something about me which is off, but I haven't found any answers. The only consistent response from women is that I apparently give off the vibe of a player which initially makes women back off. They never said anything was wrong with me, just who I am - the fk was that supposed to mean? o.O
So ok, I started showing a little vulnerability here and there, but in the end, still nothing but a sausage. I still remember that one singles event that I attended and EVERY WOMAN believed I was a player (I blame the gossipers - but I find it disturbing that they all agreed without even getting to know me!!!!)
My ex never judged me in this way, confident from the get go that she could handle me (and she was right - I just couldn't handle her!). Yet, in the end, I was nothing but a sausage (and wallet) - but she certainly loved the sausage enough to marry the man behind it at one point!
Anyway, I'm with an FWB now so I'm still nothing but a sausage. After enough disappointments in dating I've succumbed to my fate. Is it time to acknowledge that I'm just not relationship material? Sure emotional attachments can still occur, evidently from a recent FB (fkbuddy) who I had to leave behind as I couldn't give her what she wanted - and from my perspective her "love" was merely an illusion/cloud as it happens from time to time in casual relationships.
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