So have read numerous posts and threads discussing a loss of respect as a reason for lack of desire/attraction.
It seems the reasons for loss of respect is many ...
doormat behavior, neediness, clingy, failing the many s--t test, trying to connect, overly conscious and concerns over wife's moods ...etc..etc..
It also seems that the female spouse actaully at times WISHES she did not lose the resiecgt for her husband at all. In the case of many BPD wives, the irony is that they largely contributed to all the above behaviors.
So for all those earnest - cofnident - and strong men - who may have acted in ways that have lost thier wifes respect - - the question is:
CAN it be regained?
Can she look again at us in a passionate, desirous, attracted way?
Need to hear if any of you found it was possible, did it, etc..
Thanks
Night
It seems the reasons for loss of respect is many ...
doormat behavior, neediness, clingy, failing the many s--t test, trying to connect, overly conscious and concerns over wife's moods ...etc..etc..
It also seems that the female spouse actaully at times WISHES she did not lose the resiecgt for her husband at all. In the case of many BPD wives, the irony is that they largely contributed to all the above behaviors.
So for all those earnest - cofnident - and strong men - who may have acted in ways that have lost thier wifes respect - - the question is:
CAN it be regained?
Can she look again at us in a passionate, desirous, attracted way?
Need to hear if any of you found it was possible, did it, etc..
Thanks
Night
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