So in the last few months I have stopped initiating and told H to initiate when he wanted it. But we ended up going up to 2 weeks on a regular basis without him making any effort or showing interest. By then we were emotionally distant and physical affection felt awkward. Either he or I would finally say "we need to do something about this" and then we would agree to have sex again. So much for feeling desired. He says he's ready to have sex sooner but never finds the time to actually initiate it. When we do have sex it's usually late-night quickies, maybe 3 times in a week, then back to a long stretch without.
He's also been complaining about feeling too tired most of the time, his ejaculate amount is really low, and he has trouble getting fully erect. He used to have intermittent ED and the doctor told him to try Viagra for a few months. He rarely loses his erection now, but it gets softer after the first 5 minutes of arousal.
He finally got his T-levels checked and they came back at 470 (doctor would only check total T). That's a little low, but i'm not sure if it's low enough to cause problems. Now the doctor's given his cialis, but it doesn't seem like a long term solution, so i'm not sure where to go from here again.
He's also been complaining about feeling too tired most of the time, his ejaculate amount is really low, and he has trouble getting fully erect. He used to have intermittent ED and the doctor told him to try Viagra for a few months. He rarely loses his erection now, but it gets softer after the first 5 minutes of arousal.
He finally got his T-levels checked and they came back at 470 (doctor would only check total T). That's a little low, but i'm not sure if it's low enough to cause problems. Now the doctor's given his cialis, but it doesn't seem like a long term solution, so i'm not sure where to go from here again.
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