I am 25 and he is 31 now.
I met my husband almost 4 1/2 years ago. We were in love at first. He has a daughter from a previous relationship (her mother is in her life) and i have a son from a previous relationship (dad is NOT in his life). About 2 months after meeting, we moved in together. Spent every moment we could with each other and we used to do so much!!
Not too long after moving in together, we decided to have a baby! I got pregnant, we got married about 6 months after meeting each other. This year will be our 4th wedding anniversary!
We have had our ups and downs. Disagreements blah blah. Nothing too big.
Well now... Our marriage has gotten boring. He likes to stay at home every evening but i like to go out to the lake or go for a walk. Our life has turned into a routine! We work, come home, fix dinner and sit around. I'm getting bored!
We've talked about it but now it's all about how he was raised. He used to sit at home everyday. My parents always took us kids everywhere!
He didn't used to be like this! He isn't like this when his friends come around!
I'm getting depressed and he sees it. He doesn't help though.
I love to go fishing (he thinks fishing is boring) so i went and got my fishing stuff and had a day to myself. I went out to the lake and fished for about 3 hours. It was so nice to have some time alone.
He get's in these moods where if he's mad that something isn't done around the house (laundry, dishes, vacuuming, etc.) he gets mad and doesn't talk to me and goes like on a cleaning rampage!
The sex has gotten boring too. Same position everytime.
I never get compliments and have told him that i would like to have them more often. I compliment him waaay more often!
(We both work full time and have 3 kids)
He treats the kids differently too. He favorites our littlest one. I do more with the kids than he does. I would love for all of us to go to the park in the evening after work but that happens maybe once a month.
I'm getting bored and depressed here and feeling i'd be happier alone. I've told him this and he asks me if i have a boyfriend or if i'm wanting a divorce! I don't think he realizes that saying those things doesn't help!!
I would like to just get out of the house after work sometimes and just go do a little shopping. Even if i don't buy anything. But he talks me out of it. Or i feel like i have to do a chore before i go.
I think of how much happier i was and how much easier my life was when i was single and sometimes wish i could go back to that. I hate to be like this but it's true!
He's not a bad guy! He works hard everyday and so do i. Is it me? I sometimes feel like maybe i got married too young or too soon to my husband. We're really not "in love" with each other anymore either.
We seen a counselor when my son was going for his behavioral problems. The counselor helped when we were going but... now back to where we were before.
I met my husband almost 4 1/2 years ago. We were in love at first. He has a daughter from a previous relationship (her mother is in her life) and i have a son from a previous relationship (dad is NOT in his life). About 2 months after meeting, we moved in together. Spent every moment we could with each other and we used to do so much!!
Not too long after moving in together, we decided to have a baby! I got pregnant, we got married about 6 months after meeting each other. This year will be our 4th wedding anniversary!
We have had our ups and downs. Disagreements blah blah. Nothing too big.
Well now... Our marriage has gotten boring. He likes to stay at home every evening but i like to go out to the lake or go for a walk. Our life has turned into a routine! We work, come home, fix dinner and sit around. I'm getting bored!
We've talked about it but now it's all about how he was raised. He used to sit at home everyday. My parents always took us kids everywhere!
He didn't used to be like this! He isn't like this when his friends come around!
I'm getting depressed and he sees it. He doesn't help though.
I love to go fishing (he thinks fishing is boring) so i went and got my fishing stuff and had a day to myself. I went out to the lake and fished for about 3 hours. It was so nice to have some time alone.
He get's in these moods where if he's mad that something isn't done around the house (laundry, dishes, vacuuming, etc.) he gets mad and doesn't talk to me and goes like on a cleaning rampage!
The sex has gotten boring too. Same position everytime.
I never get compliments and have told him that i would like to have them more often. I compliment him waaay more often!
(We both work full time and have 3 kids)
He treats the kids differently too. He favorites our littlest one. I do more with the kids than he does. I would love for all of us to go to the park in the evening after work but that happens maybe once a month.
I'm getting bored and depressed here and feeling i'd be happier alone. I've told him this and he asks me if i have a boyfriend or if i'm wanting a divorce! I don't think he realizes that saying those things doesn't help!!
I would like to just get out of the house after work sometimes and just go do a little shopping. Even if i don't buy anything. But he talks me out of it. Or i feel like i have to do a chore before i go.
I think of how much happier i was and how much easier my life was when i was single and sometimes wish i could go back to that. I hate to be like this but it's true!
He's not a bad guy! He works hard everyday and so do i. Is it me? I sometimes feel like maybe i got married too young or too soon to my husband. We're really not "in love" with each other anymore either.
We seen a counselor when my son was going for his behavioral problems. The counselor helped when we were going but... now back to where we were before.
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