We are at it...again.

After counselling, and talks about a marriage is bringing two people with different backgrounds, different expectations etc etc together, and working out a compromise WITH the counsellor at the sessions, which we both agreed on.... husband is back to his old self. I am so so tired. A short list of what has been going on lately: 1. Husband doesn't seem to care about my sexual needs, if I initiate sex he always wants to finish looking at the program on tv, or has some urgent work to do - my timing is usually when the children are in bed, and we have the rest of the night to ourselves. If he doesn't initiate it - it doesn't happen. And frankly I am getting tired of jumping through hoops when he is in the mood, and having to take a book and read and go to sleep or do something else when I am in the mood. 2. After agreeing to let me work and apologizing for not helping and being selfish - he is back to his old tricks trying to make life as miserable as possible. And even voiced " You will never be able to work." Since he makes it nearly impossible to do, he does not support me and does not help me with the kids. 3. He spend 3 days this week "working" - meaning helping his father with his business now before everybody hits me with stones, I do realise that you have to help family - but what I do not get is why he can't help me with the kids for half a day a week while I earn an income. IS there no men out there who appreciate a independent woman who is not lazy and actually want to make something of her life and help with responsibilities around the house.

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