Men's brains vs. women's and the need for closure

DISCLAIMER: not all men are like this but many are because they view relationships differently than women. Something to think about during the process of divorce and at the end of the breakup or divorce to keep you from contacting him and staying strong: At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what he thinks about his past behavior or mistakes. You're no longer together. Men aren't like women. They don't need closure. He's not thinking about you. Only himself. So don't waste your thoughts on him. I know it's easier said than done but its reality. Concentrate on loving yourself. It is tough to keep moving forward and give yourself time to heal and grieve and whenever sadness hits me I try to remember WHY the divorce is happening and to approach it more like a business deal and getting what I need financially to move on and try to take the emotions out of it.

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